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I’m just like you! A busy Mum, with nothing more than a dream and the deepest desire to live a life that sets my soul on fire with no exceptions.

Through my podcast, coaching, thriving Facebook community and weekly dose of love, I help Mum’s dream BIG, eliminate their limiting beliefs and manifest what they want with ease.

Never let it be said that to dream is a waste of one’s time, for dreams are our realities in waiting. In dreams, we plant the seeds of our future.
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I’m often asked why dreaming is so important?

At the age of 10, I lost my own Mother to Breast Cancer and I stopped dreaming there and then. For the next 2 decades I battled with myself and my mind and stayed stuck in a life that felt like punishment. I continued to create a reality that I didn’t want to be in but had no idea that I was the one creating it. It was a vicious cycle.

Since the age of 14, when I first came across Tony Robbins, I craved learning all I could about the power of my thoughts to create my reality. You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay still stands strong as the most pivotal life-changing book of my life.

I became deeply passionate about feeling better and experiencing a more fulfilling life. I read all I could, watched every video I came across and started putting a more supportive mindset into practice.  It wasn’t perfect. I stumbled often and I struggled to believe I had it within me to be who I want, do what I wanted and have what I dreamed of.

Those struggles resulted in an unfulfilling, loveless and desperate life.

But in the Summer of 2011, at the lowest of lows, I started to dream BIG for something different.  

A life filled with love, a nurturing, compassionate partner and the pitter patter of little feet filling our home.  

Every Sunday morning, I would lie in bed in my old, dingy granny flat all alone and visualise this life.  I would see it in my mind’s eye, feel it in my heart and allow the love, gratitude and fulfillment to wash over me.  

I created a vision board which I displayed prominently in my bedroom so I could wake up every morning focused on the life I was heading towards, not my current reality.  I had stuck pictures of happy couples, loving words, pictures of children, a cruise ship for the holiday we would take, and even had the words ‘husband’ and ‘family’ stuck on it.

After advice from a good friend, I also went through the exercise of writing a letter to the Universe stating all the personality traits and characteristics I desired in my future husband. I listed every detail of what mattered to me.  Tall and handsome most certainly featured as did trustworthy, athletic and fit, good relationship with family, loving, compassionate and affectionate amongst other things.

Only a matter of months after I began this regular practice of dreaming and focusing my attention on my future, life changed in a monumental way. The short version is, I met the man I had dreamt of, moved in with him only a couple of months later and within 16 months we were married and pregnant with our first child together.

Every tiny detail of what I dreamt, came true. The way he looked, the characteristics I imagined, the home we live in and the way I felt. We even went on the cruise I had pinned on my board that same year.  

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I didn’t realise it at the time, but I had manifested my husband and had actively used the Law of Attraction along with the 11 other Universal Laws of Manifestation to my benefit.  

Many years later, upon reflection, and as I learned more about manifesting, I realised I had done everything required to deliberately create the reality I had decided I was going to have.

It felt like magic.  It was incredibly serendipitous and we both put it down to fate at times. Perhaps there were elements of that, but I was so intentional with my dream and so emotionally and energetically connected to what I wanted, that I know it was not random chance.

During our relationship, I dabbled more in law of attraction, and I know with certainty that I manifested my daughter, a 6-figure business in the health and wellness space and the subsequent sale of that business two weeks after my twins were born. 

To learn more about my manifesting successes and failures, listen to my podcast.

But this time was also full of struggles. I fell often. I failed miserably in business and I stopped dreaming.

I had created a life full of love, but I also created lots of things I didn’t want. A business that drained and exhausted me.  A busy life that often left me feeling overwhelmed and a pain in my heart that lay unhealed from when I was 10 years old.

It took the death of my Father in 2017 to propel me on the path I am now on.  I began healing the deepest pains in my heart, letting go of that which no longer served me, and, most importantly, I started to dream the biggest most audacious dreams of my life.

Now, I am intent on learning absolutely everything I can about the Law of Attraction and Manifesting and putting it all to work for me, to create my dream life.  And the bonus in my current experience is that I have immediately shifted my energy from one of overwhelm, chaos, worry and depression, to feeling a joy and abundance that has always felt so elusive to me.

I have learnt so much in my 37+ years on this planet and my passion is now helping other busy and ambitious Mum’s to create whatever they want in life through the power of dreaming, emotional freedom, taking inspired and imperfect action and surrendering to allow their dreams to become their reality. 

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That means you must learn how to feel good now, regardless of your current reality, past failures and overwhelming fears and doubts.  

I believe we all have the ability to live the life of our dreams right now, but I also believe most of you never give yourself permission to express what you really want, are too attached to your limitations, are stuck living life looking in the rear view mirror.  I know.  This was me for so long. 

I believe the one thing which keeps you living a life that doesn’t totally fulfil you, is your mind and the beliefs it houses about how deserved you feel to experience true happiness and fulfillment doing whatever your heart desires.

I also believe that wine and coffee can solve almost every problem life throws your way.  But, hey! Who doesn’t?

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